Sam Elliott, the venerable actor known for his commanding presence and gravelly voice, has often portrayed characters who have lived hard, tested lives. Now, at 81, Elliott finds that some of the experiences of the characters he plays resonate closely with his own life. In a recent interview with Variety, he opened up about his role as T.L. Norris in the hit drama series Landman, reflecting on how the physical challenges of aging depicted in the show mirror his own.

In the second season of Landman, Elliott’s character T.L. faces the harsh realities of growing older and dealing with a body that no longer functions as it once did. Elliott described one particularly poignant scene that struck a deep chord with him. In this moment, T.L., the father of Tommy Norris, portrayed by Billy Bob Thornton, finds himself trapped in a swimming pool, unable to lift himself out due to pain in his knees and hip. The scene is a raw depiction of vulnerability, capturing the frustration and sadness that comes with physical decline. Elliott commented, “The truth of it is, [that scene] is very true to where I am at this point in my life physically. Not mentally, but physically. I’ve had a hard life. I’ve been an athlete all my life, and I’ve been a laborer all my life, and I’m paying for it now.”

The dialogue between T.L. and his son Tommy deepens the emotional weight of the storyline. In the pool scene, T.L. admits, “With my knees and my hip, I can’t stand right now,” as Tommy moves to assist him. The conversation evolves into a reflection on T.L.’s life in a retirement home and his transition to living with his son and daughter-in-law, Angela, played by Ali Larter. Through tears, T.L. observes, “It’s a curse my mind is sharp. I get to sit here and process all the ways my body is failing me.” This moment highlights the poignant intersection of mental acuity and physical limitations, emphasizing the struggles many face as they age.

The father-son dynamic serves as a central focus for the season. Elliott previously told PEOPLE that the narrative centers on the fractured relationship between T.L. and Tommy as they attempt to rebuild trust that was lost over many years. “This character I’m playing is a fractured man,” Elliott explained. “It’s gone on for him for years, since his wife turned inward, and he waited forever for her to come out of it, and she never really did. But consequently, [Tommy] paid for it, while [T.L.] checked out.” The series delves into both the complexities of T.L.’s past inaction and the enduring impact it has had on his family, creating a layered and emotionally resonant storyline.

As the season unfolds, viewers witness a gradual healing process, where both father and son confront their past grievances and attempt to reconnect. Elliott shared, “We’re going to spend much of this season seeing T.L. early on, but then it becomes both of us, I think, healing that relationship that’s falling apart.” The show balances moments of tension and reconciliation, ultimately underscoring the possibility of growth and understanding even after years of estrangement.

Elliott also highlighted the collaborative nature of his work on Landman, noting that he continues to learn from his colleagues. Working alongside Billy Bob Thornton has provided him with fresh insights, despite the actor playing his onscreen son. “Even though he’s playing my son, he’s still got something to offer. He’s been in this game for a long time. He’s not only a brilliant actor, but he’s not a bad director or a writer,” Elliott said. This mutual exchange of experience and craft enhances the depth of the performances and brings authenticity to their interactions.

Another highlight for Elliott this season has been working with Francesca Xuereb, who plays Cheyenne, a character tasked with assisting T.L. in his physical therapy. Elliott described the collaboration as particularly rewarding, emphasizing how the ensemble cast contributes to a nuanced and compelling portrayal of T.L.’s journey.

Elliott’s reflection on the season of Landman not only sheds light on the narrative arc of T.L. Norris but also offers a candid glimpse into his personal experiences with aging and resilience. Despite a career spanning over six decades, Elliott continues to explore new dimensions in his craft, drawing on both personal insight and the talents of those around him. His portrayal of T.L. stands as a testament to the power of storytelling in conveying the complexities of life, family, and the human spirit, resonating deeply with audiences who may see parts of their own experiences mirrored in his character’s struggles and triumphs.