South Korean singer and actress IU is gaining attention once again after sharing her honest and thoughtful views on love during a behind-the-scenes interview for the drama Perfect Crown.
On May 12, a video titled “Tears Over the News of This Week’s Finale… Behind the Scenes of ‘Perfect Crown’” was uploaded to IU’s YouTube channel, “Lee Ji-geum.” The video featured emotional filming moments from the drama’s latest episodes, along with candid conversations between IU and the production staff.

In the series, IU plays Seong Hui-ju, a woman born into a powerful chaebol and military family. One of the most emotional scenes showed Hui-ju’s contract marriage being exposed to the public. As the scandal spirals out of control, Hui-ju desperately begs her father for help in protecting Grand Prince Ian, the man she loves.
During the scene, Hui-ju falls to her knees in tears and pleads, “I can handle this. So please,” showing that she is willing to sacrifice her pride for someone she truly cares about.

The production team described the moment by saying, “Hui-ju has abandoned all her pride.” IU then reflected on the scene and offered deeper insight into the emotions behind her character’s actions.
“Before love, I abandoned all pride,” IU explained. She then added a comment that quickly drew attention online: “I wish Woon could recognize this kind of love.”
However, IU continued by revealing her own personal beliefs about relationships and love.
“Seeing that she hopes the other person will recognize it, she must not love enough yet,” IU said. “Love is not about hoping for recognition.”

Her comments immediately sparked discussion among fans, many of whom praised her mature and realistic perspective on love. Because the statement sounded deeply personal, the production staff asked whether those thoughts belonged to her character Hui-ju or to IU herself.
IU answered honestly.
“It’s IU’s philosophy,” she said with a smile. “Hui-ju probably hasn’t experienced enough love to even have a philosophy about it.”
She also spoke about the emotional weight of the kneeling scene, explaining that it was especially painful for Hui-ju because of her complicated relationship with her father.
“Because of her relationship with her father, kneeling before him would have been much more difficult and humiliating than kneeling before the entire nation in a public apology,” IU explained. “She must have begged with the desperation of someone grasping at a straw.”
This is not the first time IU has shared her thoughts about love while promoting Perfect Crown. Last month, during an episode of “Lee Ji-geum – Mini Palette,” she discussed similar ideas while speaking with the cast members of the drama.
At the time, IU said, “And you know what? When you truly love, you don’t have to keep talking about love like that.”
The quote quickly spread across online communities and social media platforms, with many fans saying her words felt sincere and emotionally mature.
Naturally, some viewers also connected IU’s comments to her real-life relationship with actor Lee Jong-suk. The two stars publicly confirmed their relationship in December 2022 after years of being close friends. Since then, they have remained one of Korea’s most beloved celebrity couples.
Although IU and Lee Jong-suk rarely speak openly about their relationship, fans have often noticed subtle signs of support between them. Reports of Lee attending IU’s concerts and quietly cheering on her projects have repeatedly become hot topics online.

Many fans now believe IU’s recent comments offer a glimpse into the values that shape her relationship in real life — a love built on sincerity rather than public recognition.
As Perfect Crown approaches its finale, IU continues to impress audiences not only with her emotional acting performance, but also with the honesty and depth she brings to conversations about love and relationships.